This Is Me

25th Aug 2006

I just found out today that a cousin of mine just lost her baby. My heart goes out to her and her husband.

My cousin is the same age with me.
We grew up together, well almost.
She’s married. I’m not.
She have a child. I don’t.

An aunt, who’s really close to me.. gave me a call yesterday. She was worried and concerned about me, not being married and all those stuff a person would say to a single girl. Honestly, I didn’t like those talks. I mean, what is SO WRONG for being single at this age? It’s not that I’m 30yrs old! I know she’s concern about me, and so does my other relatives who can never seem to find other topics to talk to me but “When are you getting married?”

But for goodness sake, this is MY life. Tho other girls of my age (and most of my gal friends) would be happily married and have 2 or 3 kids at home right now , I am HAPPY with what I am. It never crosses my mind to get settled down, yet. No, not right now. And I would REALLY appreciate it if people stop asking me when will my big day come.


I’m happy with how I am right now.

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3 thoughts on “This Is Me

  1. Me, Myself and I

    ha! funny, I really know what you mean.I am not yet at the thirties and they are not asking me when i am getting married but THEY ARE ALWAYS ASKING ME ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND!!! WTF!? WHAT BOYFRIEND? I guess they don’t understand we can be OK with no formal man beside us plus they don’t understand we just wanna have fun with guys and don’t share other feelings than that with them!

    Sweetie, I truly know how you feel but, seriously, dont wast your time. Wait to choose the man you think is ok for you.

    If u wanna talk u know where u can find me. Hugs!

  2. Imbi

    Hmmm… I thought that the centuries that women only could be happy with a husband are passed.

    Hun, be the person you are.
    You’re such a great, loving, feeling, caring person.

    Funny… I always choose blindly some music from my computer and now it’s “Three times a lady”. Is that a message? LOL!

    They kept asking me the same question until I 29.
    And now?
    I see I married because I felt I had to, and I went for the first guy that was nice to me and wanted me.
    You have some insight in my life, and you know I deserve better.
    In fact I feel that there is somewhere someone and I hope I will meet him before I’m too old.

    I wouldn’t want to miss my children, but they have coloured my life and my life is centered around them.

    My talents.. I haven’t been able to develop them fully, and that’s such a pity.

    I think we all have a purpose to fullfill in life and God has other plans with you than your family. It’s not up to them to question that plan.

    About the little baby that died.
    You know it happened twice here. I have worked many many years with parents after their baby died.
    I feel so sorry for them. If I can be of any help, please let me know.

    Big huggggggggggggggssss

  3. ann

    Why did I miss this post? Quite interesting. Cindy, being single has a lot of advantages, enjoy it while you’re still single. Just ignore the aunt.. as the saying goes.. masuk telinga kanan keluar telinga kiri. ;)


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