I just found out today that a cousin of mine just lost her baby. My heart goes out to her and her husband.
My cousin is the same age with me.
We grew up together, well almost.
She’s married. I’m not.
She have a child. I don’t.
An aunt, who’s really close to me.. gave me a call yesterday. She was worried and concerned about me, not being married and all those stuff a person would say to a single girl. Honestly, I didn’t like those talks. I mean, what is SO WRONG for being single at this age? It’s not that I’m 30yrs old! I know she’s concern about me, and so does my other relatives who can never seem to find other topics to talk to me but “When are you getting married?”
But for goodness sake, this is MY life. Tho other girls of my age (and most of my gal friends) would be happily married and have 2 or 3 kids at home right now , I am HAPPY with what I am. It never crosses my mind to get settled down, yet. No, not right now. And I would REALLY appreciate it if people stop asking me when will my big day come.
I’m happy with how I am right now.