Comments on: She Aint Heavy, She’s My Sister

By: AbangMu

Tue, 12 Sep 2006 09:03:06 +0000

Wah. My Sis Cindy is an angel lah. I’m so very the touched one.. tell her I love her too..yah.

By: Nonnie

Sun, 10 Sep 2006 15:08:37 +0000

I wish I have siblings..

By: Ria

Sat, 09 Sep 2006 16:21:29 +0000

Hey that’s SISTERS 4YA! I am 9 and a half years older than my sis, so when she was 8-9 I was already with a job and I took her everywhere, clothes shopping, long beach drives etc etc.
Now she lives nearby (next town) and I see her very little (her work schedule-etc) There are time I feel bad for her, ’cause she has always been struggling in her career, It is a very competitive one!
We (older siblings) help them as we can, but we also have to let them “do their thang” (so to speak) so they can learn to survive and make it in this world (Ofcourse I have always been in the background for when, and/or IF she needs a bit of help), The same thing I do with my 19yr old son, I am there for him, but I also “push” him to learn to be a “survivor”in life. (he is more stubborn than a mule..!!!) arrrrgh…!! LOL!
Taking her out shopping is a GREAT start to “re-light” your “sister relationship”… Do it, it will make you both feel better, and more “attached” to eachother.

ON ANOTHER NOTE…
Have a Great Weekend (Weather here is GORGEOUS) I hope you have bright Sunny Skies… ‘Ria

By: Cheri

Sat, 09 Sep 2006 12:00:02 +0000

Hey chick! Sorry to hear about you beig upset! I’m a only child so I have no advice, sorry! The movie Signs was good, we watch it often!

By: imbi

Sat, 09 Sep 2006 08:46:10 +0000

You’re such a good, kind person.
And your sister is lucky to have you. Very lucky.

I remember my time as a student and I loved all the people around me for some time.

Maybe you can ask her to tell to you how she experiences it all. If funny things happen. If people share their emotions, or if it’s just sharing fun.
Some people have a strong feel to belong to a peer group, and they need the experience to get more aware of their own identity.

I wouldn’t offer helping to find a single room, but I would tell her that if ever she needed to perk up her room, or wants to move or something, you would feel offended if you wouldn’t be able to help. Put it with a smile, like you’re joking. But make it clear, so she won’t forget.
Maybe do it while handing over a new adressbook with your adress in it. (“days and nights” after it). A new life a new adresbook.

I think it’s important she doesn’t feel mothered after, or criticised, but to feel independable, with someone who really cares and is ready to sit down and listen.

I came here to tell you it’s saurday morning here. 10.45. LOL! So you’re far in time before me.
And to aks you officially to become my online sister. :flirt: Well. you already are.

Hugggsss

By: Me, Myself and I

Sat, 09 Sep 2006 07:56:49 +0000

Sisters are sister Cindy, and the relationship between them isn’t as the one with a friend ( because here it is the difference between both concepts! )
However, never is late to havinga closer relationship. Maybe you can take adventatge of this new situation, where your sister might need someone familiar to talk with about this new experience and better someone who already went through the same like you!:)

I also recommend you to suggest her looking for a single room for her. It is good fun to share house and bedroom but after some time you get sick of peole because you don’t even have intimacy when you go to the bathroom!:angry:

Hope you are feeling good Cindy :kiss: and sorry to make you feel bad with my post :shy:

By: Gabriela

Sat, 09 Sep 2006 06:38:59 +0000

Hello Cindi. Have so much fun with your sis tomorrow shopping.

Have a very lovely weekend you both.

Hugs. :dance::dance: :dance::):dance::dance::dance: